Here are my notes on this topic:
1. Allport
- Trait Theory
- 1st modern personality trait theorist
- dictionaries for words that described personality
- 17,953 adjectives
- settled on 4504 of them.
- Common Traits
- Most were “common traits”
- traits we all hold in common
- Some have a lot of one
- Some have only a smidge
- Personal dispositions
- Unique Traits
- People can have individual traits unique to them
- Bridged the “lots of traits” and the “only a few traits” debate by combining them.
- central core is our sense of self
- Three Types
- Cardinal
- Central: 5-10 traits
- Secondary
- Proprium
- Core to personality: a proprium.
- Six stages
2. Group Dynamics
- Norms
- Rules about how group members should act
- Specific Roles
- Social Loafing
- When individuals do not put in as much effort when acting as part of a group as they do when acting alone
- Group Polarization
- The tendency of a group to make more extreme decisions than the group members would make individually
- Groupthink
- The tendency for some groups to make bad decisions
- Group members suppress their reservations about the ideas the group supports
3. Three Studies
Zimbardo
- Stanford Prison Experiment
- Philip Zimbardo (the devil)
- Simulated prison
- Students took to assigned roles too well
- Ended early
- Deindividuation
- Groups members feel anonymous and aroused
- Loss of self restraint
- People do things they never would have done on their own
Milgram
- Conformity
- The tendency to go along with the views or actions of others
- Solomon Asch 1951 Experiment
- brought participants into a room of confederates
- asked them to make simple perceptual judgments
- showed 3 vertical lines and asked which was the same length as a target line
- had to answer out loud
- confederates gave a unanimous, obviously wrong answer
- 70% of participants conformed on at least 1 trial
- Obedience Studies
- Focus on the willingness of participants to do what another asks
- The Milgram Experiment 1974
- told participants it was a study about teaching and learning
- participants were told to administer “electric shocks”
- over 60% delivered all possible shocks
- Compliance Strategies
- Strategies to get others to comply with your wishes
- Foot-in-the-door Phenomenon
- If you can get people to agree to a small request, they will become more likely to agree to a larger follow-up request
- Door-in-the-face Strategy
- After people refuse a large request, they will look more favorably upon a smaller follow-up request
- Norms of Reciprocity
- The tendency to think that when someone does something nice for you, you should do something nice in return
Festinger’s Cognitive Dissonance Theory
- People are motivated to have consistent attitudes and behaviors
- when they don’t, they experience dissonance
- unpleasant mental tension
- Experiment- Festinger and Carlsmith
- participants performed a boring task
- asked to tell next subject that they enjoyed it
- subjects paid $1 to lie had more positive attitudes toward the experiment than those paid $20
- they lacked sufficient external motivation to lie
- reduced dissonance by changing attitudes
4. Four More Studies
Robbers Cave Study
- Sherif 1966
- divided campers into 2 groups
- had them compete in a series of activities to create animosity
- staged camp emergencies as superordinate goals
- improved relations between the groups
Pygmalion
- Self-fulfilling Prophecy
- The expectations we have about others can influence their behavior
- “Pygmalion in the Classroom” experiment
- Rosenthal and Jacobson 1968
- administered an IQ test to elementary school students
- said it would measure who was on the verge of academic growth
- randomly picked a group of students
- claimed they were ripe for intellectual progress
- measured IQs again at the end of the year
- the scores of the randomly picked students improved more than those of their classmates
Diffusion of Responsibility
- Bystander Intervention
- The conditions under which people are more or less likely to help someone in trouble
- The larger the group of people who witness a problem, the less responsible any one individual feels to help
Attraction
- Fundamental Principle
- We like others who:
- are similar to us
- similarity: with whom we come into frequent contact
- proximity: who return our positive feelings
- reciprocal liking
- Self-Disclosure
- Sharing a piece of personal information with another person
- The Influence of Others on an Individual’s Behavior
5. Sexual Norms
- Kink vs Vanilla
- sexual fetishism
- non-conventional sexual practices
- BDSM, leather, LGBTQ (the Q)
- BDSM. 2-62%
- Australians in last 12 months
- 1.3% woman
- 2.2% men
- B&D
- 60% fantasize
- 10% participate
- Christian Joyal (2015)
- surveyed 1,500 women and men
- Sexual fantasies
- Being dominated
- 64.6% women
- 53.3% men
- Sick
- Freud yes
- Pamela Connolly
- compared to published norms on 10 psychological disorders.
- lower depression, anxiety, PTSD
- sadism, masochism, borderline
- equal levels of OCD
- higher narcissism
- Spanked & tied up makes you high
- images of
- bondage, disciple, sadomasochism, dominance, submission
- endorphin rush (runner’s high)
- pain, acting out fantasy & sex
- Power exchange
- Pain of peppers
- Classical conditioning
- click of boot with licking boot
- Operant (humiliation punishment)
- Scenes & play together
- Group activities
- Safe, Sane & Consensual
- Safe word
- Red-yellow-green
- Safe, Sane & Consensual
- Bondage
- Dominance
- Can be abusive
- Voluntary
- Time limit
- Submission
- Traditional woman’s role
- Collar ceremony
- Not orientation specific
- S&M
- Leather
- Pet Play
- Humiliation
- Fun
- Abusive